On Twitter, Susan Reynolds writes:

This morning at Mass, I witnessed something I have never seen, and words still mostly fail me. /1

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

Our priest gave a powerful homily. He explained how poor ecclesiology has disempowered lay people &, in simple terms, how we must view this crisis as systemic. He affirmed the statement on the bishops’ resignation. He concluded by calling for radical lay-led structural reform. /2

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

Then he sat down.
And then, in the fifth row, a dad stood up. “HOW?” he pleaded. “TELL US HOW.” His voice was shaking and determined and terrified. His collared shirt was matted to his back with sweat. /3

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

Jaws dropped. My eyes filled with tears. I’ve belonged to call-and-response parishes. This isn’t one. This is a big, middle of the road parish in a wealthyish Southeast college town. In such contexts it’s hard to imagine a more subversive act than doing what that dad just did. /4

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

The priest stood up again. He looked the dad in the eyes, and he answered him slowly and haltingly and thoughtfully. The whole thing was so stunning I don’t even remember what he said. But what he didn’t say was, “Sir, please have a seat,” or “We can talk after Mass.” /5

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

He could have cited preservation of liturgical solemnity as an excuse to dismiss the man and thus escape this terribly uncomfortable moment. Instead, he let this father’s cry interrupt us. He allowed himself to be put on the spot, to answer for things he didn’t do. /6

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

“I have a son,” the dad said. “He’s going to make his first communion. What am I supposed to tell him?” In his searching, halting response, the priest made space for the wrenching inadequacy of every possible response to be laid bare. /7

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

This was not a brief, dismissive exchange. 10 minutes at least, and the two also talked at length after mass. At the end of mass, the priest offered to invite the Bishop to the parish for a listening session. “And if he won’t come, I will.” /8

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

The holy rawness of that dad’s lament and the renegotiation of power it effected transformed the experience of the liturgy in ways that far exceed my ability to articulate them in this moment. /9

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018

People don’t want finessed press releases. They want to name their betrayal out loud, in public, in sacred space, before the tabernacle, before God and one another. They want to be listened to without condescension. They don’t want easy answers. They want contrition. /10

— Dr. Susan Reynolds (@SusanBReynolds1) August 19, 2018